Sorry for commenting here, but it's more discreet. I wanna say that reading what you transcribed really made me speachless.
I want to tell you that I honestly didn't like her because I read some stuff (even an article about her cheating on him with another man!) and okay, they were prejudices,I already know that this is childish and shallow. I'm a possessive girl (don't think bad of me, it's just my character) and it's stupid because he's not a real person of my life and I can separate real and not. Suddenly when I knew this news, watched the pic, what I just said disappeared. I just felt relieved. I had a feeling that they weren't together anymore. Knowing that I was wrong didn't made me mad at all. I was honestly happy that he actually found a woman who TRULY loved him for so long and still does. After 8 year you can only: know someone and understand you can't be together or LOVE that someone forever. I hope this is the case. Now, he's an idol. Imo being an idol sucks for a lot of reasons and thinking that Junno does this job it's something I don't really like. On the other hand, he is actually one of the most enthusiastic people doing this job and he wouldn't ruin his career for something like a personal relationship and fan's stupid reactions. It's not that he would quit KAT-TUN for this. I don't know how ut he loves what he does, really. He's a man, as you said, he needs a life, to love and to be loved and maybe he really found his soulmate. He is the usual awesome and beautifully hearted Junno. The same of the last 8 and more years that everyone (almost) loved. "Hate"? For what? Because he has a life? I so want that everyone of them finally found someone to spend their lives with, w/o the risk of growing old alone because of the fear of reactions. Japanese fandom is so childish, they treat these people like dolls, like they have no soul and heart, like they're toys to pay for having some playtime and then judge them if they actually live. If I've ever "judged" one of them is only because I worry that they could have some troubles, like with his korean trips that always in my mind had a dark image because of what? I don't even know! XD Mybe us as foreign fans care more about them as individuals because we don't have this idol/doll culture but japanese fans (don't know if others too) don't and it's because their society from this point of view is deply sick. I'm so happy. I started to think how happy he would be if he becomes an husband and a father, he would be the happiest man on heart and this thought make me feel so proud of my ichiban, of that man so loyal and awesome. Most of all I thought that if HE loves her, she MUST be worth it, so I want and have to definitely TRUST him in his choices because he can only chose what's best for him. I want this as you do and all fans should do. He deserves to be loved for all the reasons we already know. We should only thank her for giving him so much love, he's so gorgeous and doesn't stop getting better and better in everything. My only fear is japanese fandom. I can clearly see the mess they could do, because their precious smiley doll prince is taken (ehm, why such an handsome creature should be alone?) and OMG maybe he wants to marry. He already had troubles, and so KAT-TUN. How can't fandom understand that their dear "we will always support kat-tun!" actually means THIS and not only buy cds and dvds and attend concerts and so on? I'm already trying to imagine him dealing w/ girlfriend&mother in the same house and I'm dying of laughs, because it's a so great image... and maybe there's the insured dog too! XD Junno's happy face is the answer to everything. He must and need to keep on smiling like he does. What if he stops because of the bad things he and the group would face because of this illogical and senseless anger? Some people (japanese fandom or not) are only really really stupid and selfish and blind.
Sorry for this long messy reply but I wanted to say that you (and Junno! obviously xD) have my support and understanding, moreover I had to admit my own faults and try to settle my mind clearly somehow :) I know we disagree on some things and we have some different points of view but we both love Junno and I know that I can speak with you openly.
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Date: 2015-04-07 11:58 pm (UTC)I wanna say that reading what you transcribed really made me speachless.
I want to tell you that I honestly didn't like her because I read some stuff (even an article about her cheating on him with another man!) and okay, they were prejudices,I already know that this is childish and shallow. I'm a possessive girl (don't think bad of me, it's just my character) and it's stupid because he's not a real person of my life and I can separate real and not. Suddenly when I knew this news, watched the pic, what I just said disappeared. I just felt relieved.
I had a feeling that they weren't together anymore. Knowing that I was wrong didn't made me mad at all. I was honestly happy that he actually found a woman who TRULY loved him for so long and still does. After 8 year you can only: know someone and understand you can't be together or LOVE that someone forever. I hope this is the case.
Now, he's an idol. Imo being an idol sucks for a lot of reasons and thinking that Junno does this job it's something I don't really like.
On the other hand, he is actually one of the most enthusiastic people doing this job and he wouldn't ruin his career for something like a personal relationship and fan's stupid reactions. It's not that he would quit KAT-TUN for this. I don't know how ut he loves what he does, really.
He's a man, as you said, he needs a life, to love and to be loved and maybe he really found his soulmate.
He is the usual awesome and beautifully hearted Junno. The same of the last 8 and more years that everyone (almost) loved. "Hate"? For what?
Because he has a life? I so want that everyone of them finally found someone to spend their lives with, w/o the risk of growing old alone because of the fear of reactions.
Japanese fandom is so childish, they treat these people like dolls, like they have no soul and heart, like they're toys to pay for having some playtime and then judge them if they actually live.
If I've ever "judged" one of them is only because I worry that they could have some troubles, like with his korean trips that always in my mind had a dark image because of what? I don't even know! XD
Mybe us as foreign fans care more about them as individuals because we don't have this idol/doll culture but japanese fans (don't know if others too) don't and it's because their society from this point of view is deply sick.
I'm so happy. I started to think how happy he would be if he becomes an husband and a father, he would be the happiest man on heart and this thought make me feel so proud of my ichiban, of that man so loyal and awesome.
Most of all I thought that if HE loves her, she MUST be worth it, so I want and have to definitely TRUST him in his choices because he can only chose what's best for him. I want this as you do and all fans should do. He deserves to be loved for all the reasons we already know. We should only thank her for giving him so much love, he's so gorgeous and doesn't stop getting better and better in everything.
My only fear is japanese fandom. I can clearly see the mess they could do, because their precious smiley doll prince is taken (ehm, why such an handsome creature should be alone?) and OMG maybe he wants to marry. He already had troubles, and so KAT-TUN. How can't fandom understand that their dear "we will always support kat-tun!" actually means THIS and not only buy cds and dvds and attend concerts and so on?
I'm already trying to imagine him dealing w/ girlfriend&mother in the same house and I'm dying of laughs, because it's a so great image... and maybe there's the insured dog too! XD
Junno's happy face is the answer to everything. He must and need to keep on smiling like he does. What if he stops because of the bad things he and the group would face because of this illogical and senseless anger?
Some people (japanese fandom or not) are only really really stupid and selfish and blind.
Sorry for this long messy reply but I wanted to say that you (and Junno! obviously xD) have my support and understanding, moreover I had to admit my own faults and try to settle my mind clearly somehow :)
I know we disagree on some things and we have some different points of view but we both love Junno and I know that I can speak with you openly.
'night <3